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Do You See a Male or Female OB/GYN?

Male OB/GYN Charged With Snapping Nude Pics Triggers Our Worst Fears

by Jenny Erikson

OBGYNI know many, many women who choose to see female gynecologists exclusively. Heck, I used to be one! Until just a few months ago, I never thought I'd voluntarily see a man doctor for my girly bits, but then one came highly recommended, and I gotta say -- it wasn't really any more unpleasant than the female docs I'd previously been to. His bedside manner was great, and I think I'll keep him as my regular.

I may have made a different decision if I'd heard about this story before I booked my appointment. A gynecologist in Arkansas is being charged with video voyeurism for "allegedly [using] his cell phone to take nude photos of patients during office exams."

Aghhh! Is that every woman's worst nightmare at the gyno's or what?

The investigation started last month, after a woman complained that Dr. Paul Becton Jr. "produced his cellular telephone and took photographs of her pubic region and buttocks" while she was on the table.

After obtaining a search warrant for the 68-year-old, whose website touts over 30 years of medical practice, police found "numerous images of nude females that appear to have been taken in a medical office during medical examinations." They were found as deleted images on the hard drive of his cellphone.

The woman who made the complaint identified five of the nude photos as ones "that were taken without her knowledge or consent." Becton has been charged with five felony voyeurism counts.

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Talk about an extreme violation! It's already unnerving enough to let someone, even a trained professional someone, all up in our business like that. But we're supposed to have faith that they do this all the time and take no particular special interest in our own special flowers.

This is especially creepy because he's a man! Now, I'm an equal opportunist, and know that there are questionable women out there too. But I've heard many people reason that they only want to see female OB-GYNs because they don't understand why a man would want to go into the field in the first place.

I always believed it was an appreciation for our gender as a whole, and a desire to keep us as healthy as possible. Besides, what greater job could there be than one where you get to help bring new life into the world on a regular basis?

But if this guy is taking pictures? Why?? Is the fetish a recent development, or has he always been looking at his patients a little funny? Is this why he got into the field in the first place? Sick, sick, sick!

I still believe the vast majority (like, hopefully, all the rest) of male gynecologists don't get their jollies by staring at lady parts all day. But stories like this are bound to give us a girls a pause when we decide whether or not we want our special places tended to by a man or a woman.

Do you see a male or female OB/GYN?

Does this story change your opinion on seeing a male gynecologist?

by on Apr. 25, 2014 at 6:57 PM
Replies (11-20):
kayleesmom42328
by Member on Apr. 25, 2014 at 9:30 PM
My ob/gyn in a man. There is always a female nurse present when you are examined & you never see his cell phone.
Mommy_Mae1326
by Member on Apr. 25, 2014 at 9:33 PM
I prefer male obs. They are more gentle and the few women I've seen have really hurt me with those damn speculums. I don't get why people are so weirded out about male obs. Don't get me wrong I understand the fear of getting abused. But at the end of the day it's just another part of the anatomy. Just like boobs.
MelanieJK
by Member on Apr. 25, 2014 at 9:37 PM

Male.    Either would be fine.     I don't think it makes sense to condemn all the males because of this one creep.

michelle623
by on Apr. 25, 2014 at 11:00 PM

Female

funny_girl3
by Member on Apr. 25, 2014 at 11:03 PM

I have a male ob, but there is always a female assistant present.  Which makes me feel awkward because...she's looking at my privates too and it's weird, like I'm the only person naked in a room full of people.

StreetsAhead
by Bronze Member on Apr. 26, 2014 at 3:23 AM
I've seen one once and he was male
My GP is male
oliveoyl214
by on Apr. 26, 2014 at 4:24 AM

I feel more comfortable having a woman physician and OB/GYN

jessicasmom1
by Bronze Member on Apr. 26, 2014 at 7:23 AM

a man ... I feel more comfortable which I am sure either is always a professional doctor I just prefer him

Bookwormy
by Member on Apr. 26, 2014 at 7:29 AM
Female. I'm pretty sure that mine of 2 decades is a lesbian. Cool!
booaura
by Member on Apr. 26, 2014 at 8:59 AM
I only see females doctors. I couldn't handle a male physician of any kind.
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