I am new to the forum, I am wondering how would you veiw this. I am 31 years old and I have a 10 year old son from a previous marriage which my curent husband adopted. Here's the problem.. I want to be pregnant and have a child. My husband is so nervous due to my illnesses such as PCOS and Lukopenia. Even though the doctor said we can start trying now, and even gave us the go ahead my husband is nervous. Now he's gone so far as to say, I don't want kids. We have 1 and he's enough.
Anywho my fertile period is coming up. Would it be wrong for me not to tell him anything about the fertile period and see what happens?!
Am I being selfish?