I have posted before about my sd16 that is pregnant. She is due the 18th of this month with my granddaughter. Here is what I am heartbroken about. DH has legal custody of her but she wanted to live with bm a year ago. Now that she is pregnant we know that she needs help with the baby so she can finish school but she wants to live with bm. Because we had been trying to talk her into moving back with us (we have rules and bm doesn't) she has blocked us from calling her. My MIL is throwing her a baby shower this Thursday and invited me because she said that I have been momma to her all these years and I deserve to be there. SD said that she didn't care if I came that it was up to me. I know that I will not get to see this baby and it kills me. I have raised sd and now bm gets to be grandma to this baby while I cease to exist. I have left her alone like she asked but I still want to cry every time I think about it. How do I stop? I have talked to dh about it and he feels the same way I do but by law we cannot make her live with us even if he does have custody. We can bring her to our house but if we try to make her stay then she can get us for false imprisonment according to our atty and a couple of officers that we have talked to. Sorry for the vent and thanks for listening.