Long story short.
I met my husband during a time when his ex and him were in a court battle for visitation. He supposedly went back and forth from her and I for a couple of years. He has denied being with her as much as she has claimed. Supposedly they were together just three months before we married. We did break up and got back together with him proposing.
Anyways they have never been able to get along. And I think she is crazy. She has tried to sabotage our marriage many times, by telling me that he was trying to cheat on me with her. She sent texts and everything. The latest thing is that he sent her a pornographic picture to her cell asking if it was her. He told me that he was looking out for their 5 year old daughter by asking about the picture. She got highly offended and asked me if we could just communicate, so she wouldn't have to deal with him.
That was 9 months ago. Since she has given him a little note saying that "she will always love him as their childs Father and she wishes for peace for them. it said how she wishes him all the happiness in teh world and she knows their time has passed but they can peacefully share what they created together..."
They have not spoken in 8 months. This was out of nowhere. Then a few days later a storm passed through her area and he contacted her and their child to see if they were ok. He also asked for pictures of their daughter.
Now comes the issue...Their daughter is about to graduation from her school. The mother got the graduation pictures in Monday morning and sent a couple to my husband letting him know that she would split the package with him, if he wanted any.
I replied to her by email. He ignored the text from her. She came back with "she would like to try to communicate with him from now on. She thanked me for being a buffer when things were not so good, but she thinks its important for the child that they learn to be able to be cordial with each other eventually and this seemed like a good place to start..." She said how she did think there shoudl be an issue for them not to be able communicate unless he was sending pornographic pictures and such.
I diagreed with her and told her that things did not need to change. I want all commnuication to go through me. Is this wrong?