Recently, my FIL has had severe health issues. My fiance, son, and I live with him and the rest of SO's family. SO works a part-time job since he is 19 and college starts back soon. He has applied to several full time positions in different areas and is trying find a job through a temp agency. Instead of waiting for news, he wants to get another part-time job. I don't like this idea as it is basically him working a full-time job with no benefits which is what he wants. He is stressed about work because his hours aren't steady and we need money. I just want him to try and wait a week or two to see if he hears something but of course he isn't. Instead, he points out that I don't earn any money. He doesn't want me to work though, and I raise our son most of the time by myself since he sometimes wants to do his own thing. I don't ask for any money and only use money to get our son milk when he needs it. SO uses most of the money he earns. I'm tired of him complaining I don't work when he and everyone else told me my job is to raise our son and go to school. So am I being unreasonable about that being thrown in my face once again? Is it unreasonable to see if he hears from one of these other places before taking on a second part-time job?
Please no bashing. I realize others have bigger problems, but we are trying to make ourselves better and get through college. We are doing everything we can for our son and so that we can have our own home someday. We don't mooch and help out doing what we can.