My dd has severe ocd, not an excuse for being arrogant but it has become a defense mechanism. Her cousin knows about her issues and has his own.
At the pool he met a boy his age, my dd was messing with them about how she is a sr and they are freshmen....
My nephew , thinking no one could hear, told this boy "she's a bitch" about my dd.
It's been bugging the crap outta me, my dd would never say something about him like that esp to a practical stranger. She would defend him if anything.
Would you say something to your nephew or let it go?