I don't fall into the typical mom roles. I'm not the best cook, can't do my daughter's hair very well nor cannot seem to be the best at managing all the domestic tasks. The laundry is backed up and can't get to all those should be doing deep cleaning tasks (window washing, cleaning out the freezer etc.) It's tough because DH complains that I am not the best housewife. When he met me, I was working and enjoying my career. I was able to keep my apartment clean because it was just me and I had the weekends free to do what I needed to do. Now it's all about the kids and being present for them. I don't have much free time unless its the end of the night when they are in bed. I love them with all my heart but sometimes feel that I am not at my best. Do you ever feel this way?