when you "oh no" but you really mean "YES!!!!!"
So I'm in a bit of a dilemma. My husband adores the artist Doro Pesch, no he doesn't have the hots for her my husband is just a huge music guy and she is his favorite female metal singer of all times, he owns her entire discography. She is coming to our home town, we are lucky enough that she is playing a small venue tickets are $25 BUT I go to buy tickets and there's a VIP option ... $69 will get us early entry to the venue for a meet and greet, concert tickets and a signed poster. I told my husband about it and he was like "what am I going to do / tell her, no, no, well it's up to you" Thing is we are on a budget and the tickets are paid 100% by me, I know on top of that, for sure we are buying T-shirts, parking, babysitter so it'll make for an expensive night.
But really if you had a chance to meet somebody you admired for 20+ years for a few bucks ... wouldn't you ? WWYD if you were me ?