Is it really that hard?! (vent, PIOG)

[Godspitgrl]

So my husband was in th early for four years and we live in NC during that time. We are from TN and everyone kept saying well if you we here we could hang out and so on. Well now that he is out and we now live a street, A BLOODY STREET, away from his family (his mom, two brothers, SIL, and two nieces) and not even a mile from my moms and here it is the fourth of July and my mom is having a BBQ and we weren't invited and his family is shooting off fireworks and such (we can see and hear them) and we weren't invited there either. They all know we have no money and three kids but instead of at least letting us watch the show (as bad as it sounds) we are here sitting at home and listening to the fireworks instead. I guess it was all just a bunch of lies, and I am wishing tht I never even came back here!

[Godspitgrl]

Now come to fine out my mom is doing the same bloody thing and she is not even a mile away! AAHH this is not a good mood day today for me.

[itsallabtthem84]

Sorry you couldn't do anything. Did they tell y'all that y'all were not invited?

[Godspitgrl]

No they never told us about it. I don't think that his family knew we could see and hear them cause there are houses and such and my mom never told me I found out via a post on FB they were enjoying themselves.

[sew4fun]

WOW I am sorry ! I deal with similar issues in my family . My parents had an event today and didnt tell me about it either.

[Rogue35]

That is just awful.  I am sorry you are being treated that way.

[jen113000]

 That stinks. Very rude to not invite you.

[Jess1231]

That's rude but I would ask about it

[mumsy2three]

Quoting jen113000:

 That stinks. Very rude to not invite you.

[nngmommy83]

I'm sorry =(

[Barabell]

I'm sorry. That was rude. If I knew someone your circumstance, I would have invited you over. :(