ODS was getting in trouble for not listen. We tried the corner he wouldnt do it. We tried sitting in a different room he wouldn't do it. I went to put him to bed (he didnt have a nap) and he fought me again so I got the paddle. He was fighting me again when I went to turn him over he snatched the paddle and rared back to hit me. I grabbed it back spanked him and walked out so I didn't complete loose it. I dont what to do with him but since I started watching kids (so I can have income wiht out leaving the house) he has acted like a different child. He is usually very good, but he has started hitting, kicking, and spitting. What do I do? I have spen time with him dont things just for him and yet its still happening.