So every week I work really hard to get my house clean and in order and to keep it that way....and every sunday (dh's day off and dss's day off) family day....they trash my house!!!! it's insane!!! no one picks shit up or even tries to help out!!! So on Monday my house is wrecked and it takes me forever to pick up and clean....I think I don't notice it as much during the week cause they only have a few hours a day where they can mess stuff up so it's easier to clean, I guess I didn't realize how much I do until I really stopped and looked at the mess!!!!