Your kids that is? And what are there ages and age gaps?
I have 3 kids. 2 boys and 1 girl. My oldest son is almost 12, middle son is 9 and our DD just turned 2.
my boys have a love hate relationship. and are 2 years apart.
my DD gets along better with the 9 year old, he is also very close with her and loves her to death. He takes his time and plays with her, as her and my oldest while she loves him, hes cranky with her and doesnt want to play with her so she retreats from him.