my dad was a drunk and an alcoholic. he married 3 women. the first one he had 1 son with. (the really bad seed) the second one he married he had 3 kids with. the third he married he had 1 child with.(me) well the 1st one the mother wanted kill the boy she didnt want him at all, so she called up my dad and said take him or ill kill him. ok so my dad took he chose his lifestyle over all his kids. so the second wife took all 4 of the childen and raised them i stayed with my dad and grandmother. after my grandmother died at age 9 i was abused by my dad and stepmother and ended up in foster care. well the 1st child. from the age of 6 to the present. has done alot of bad stuff theft, abuse, molestation, even prision and so on. well on and off over the past 15 yrs he hasnt wanted anything to do with the family, until today. he tried to reach me over fb and try to make amends. im scared to trust him because like i said i never met him. i dont want what happened to my family to happen to me. i met the other brothers and sister a few yrs ago in 07' for the 1st time. we have a good relationship mostly over the phone. well my dad has been off the drugs and everthing else since 01'. we are great now. but what should i do? should i stay out of it. let them figure it out themselfs, or should i continue to try to help to help the (bad seed). im scared of losing my family for helping the( bad seed)?
help me plzzzzzzz