thought maybe this group could help me

[blondie7221]

  I know none of you are dr,

   my dr told me most likely my baby i am carrying has a cromosome disorder, but WOULD not tell me what she thought it was, however told me most likely I wouldnt carry it.

  it had a heart beat of 158.

here are a few pics, the baby has fluid on the stomach and back, and the neck has alot. I was 12 or 13 weeks in it.

this is one I swear i see 2 faces, one is smaller

[Cocoashpg]

Have you got an amniocentesis done? I would get a second opinioin like an amniocentesis.    My family just gone through that with my sister where her first baby had a chromosomal disorder and sadly she had to have  late term abortion..    

 

[Cocoashpg]

Some of the disorders out there are trisomy 13, trisomy 18, triploidy.    (Though I know a little boy who is 12 years old and has trisomy 18 and touches everyone's heart..)

But Yeah I would get a second opinion..

[blondie7221]

yea I go mon to a spicalist, and I have done so much research, i am iffy about the amniocentesis, as I will not abort, so no matter what it is, it has a chance at life.

  there are also risk that go with it

[jjamom]

((Hugs)). I don't have any answers for you, but I send my prayers.

[lifeisajoy]

Hugs here also and no answers but thinking of you and your family!!  Thinking of you when you go see the specialist

[mandee1503]

*hugs* I have no idea, but hope someone has some answers!

[Cocoashpg]

Yeah. Well I know everyone's case is different and it's a very personal choice and whatever decision is made is the best one for that person..    I will be praying when you see the specialist that you get some answers..

[JenaSmith]

hugs. I hope you find your answers. The lil babe is adorable though :)

[CameronsMommy23]

 I hope you can get answers asap! I'm thinking of you and the little one.

[ChantelHammonds]

I had a daughter who had systic hygronias, a blockage in the tymph system in the neck. She had fluid around her neck and in her stomach. All I know to tell you is to Pray for God's will and the grace to indure. He gave me the peace that passes all understnading.