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My son has MMR, ODD, Anxiety, and doesn't deal with change well...Question

Posted by on Aug. 10, 2012 at 4:49 PM
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My son is 7, he was born two months early with seizures. He would seize and almost die on a dialy basis for the first two years of his life. He has Mild Mental Retardation,Oppositional Defiant Disorder, Anxiety, and Does NOT react well to Changes. He had to deal with a divorce at a young age, he was 3. But his biological father walked out of his life January 2010.He has a wonderful step father who he loves and who loves him and treats him wonderful.  His biological  tries coming around on Christmas and on his birthday in April, but It just sends him into a "relapse" or a long period of...horrid misbehavior.  By relapse I mean it triggers (as does Big changes) a Relapse of knowlage. Such as He forgets his colors or numbers, or how to brush hair or teeth, or use the bathroom or hold his bladder at night. That being said, Nothing has changed for a  while in our home, and Bio hasn't been around for a while again, and Now all the sudden my son says he cannot hold his bladder at night any more. He is peeing his bed every night while he sleeps. With nothing being different and nothing changing, I'm concerned why this is happening.  He doesn't get to drink anything a few hours before bedtime except a sip to take his meds. I'm not sure if I should take him to the University to have them check his brain  or just let this ride itself out and get him some pull ups? He didn't have a problem night training when he was 3. He hasn't had any problems until now. I'm just not sure why. He has been seizure free (that we know of) since July of 2009. But the University said that when a "Relapse" happens I should call and take him in for them to  moniter his brain activity for a few hours to see if he is having seizures or if there is unusual activity. I'm just not sure what to do and how to help my little boy. :( Any one have any suggestions??

Posted by on Aug. 10, 2012 at 4:49 PM
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girl_incognito
by Bronze Member on Aug. 10, 2012 at 5:04 PM
Get him checked out mommy, no harm in that. Get him some good nights. I have a normally developing 10 year old that still has night accidents.
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lifeisajoy
by Tab on Aug. 10, 2012 at 7:53 PM

Rule out any medical concerns--so yes get him checked out--then go from there --and others could help then--take care and welcome!

willysmama
by on Aug. 10, 2012 at 11:03 PM

get him checked out to rule out any medical concerns.

letstalk747
by Joy on Aug. 10, 2012 at 11:06 PM

 welcome , yup rule out medical concerns

crazylady0506
by New Member on Aug. 11, 2012 at 12:00 AM
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Thank you Everyone. I hate trying to figure out if I'm over or under reacting. God blessed me with a very special little guy, I just want to do whats best for him. ...even if that means a million trips to the University!

darbyakeep45
by Darby on Aug. 11, 2012 at 8:54 AM
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Welcome to the group!  I agree with these ladies....get him checked out!  You're a great mom and I"m glad you're in the group!

Quoting crazylady0506:

Thank you Everyone. I hate trying to figure out if I'm over or under reacting. God blessed me with a very special little guy, I just want to do whats best for him. ...even if that means a million trips to the University!


sammygrl77
by on Aug. 11, 2012 at 8:36 PM
I agree with the others. Better safe than sorry.
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myownspecial3
by on Aug. 12, 2012 at 2:03 AM


Quoting willysmama:

get him checked out to rule out any medical concerns.


Apollos82
by on Aug. 12, 2012 at 2:08 AM
Yup. A check will not hurt anything.

Also, 7 is when hormones do start to kick in just a bit harder. Perhaps his body chemistry is changing slightly enough to cause a small relaps.

Or, also developing around 7-8 is self esteem and self awareness...perhaps he is realizing he is different and not coping well?

Whatever the reason, y'all are in my prayers. Good luck'
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crazylady0506
by New Member on Aug. 12, 2012 at 11:23 AM

Thank you Apollos82 :)


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