Not sure if I quite belong in this group or not. My DD 4 was diagnosed with a speech delay when she was 18-24 months and has been in therapy since. She still isn't where she needs to be. Other then that I have also taken her to the center for disability and development a few hours away to see if they had any answers because she is also not potty trained and wants nothing to do with it. Her doctor has also brought up concerns with her behavior and while seeing the psychologist at the CDD they also noted some behavioral concerns. They say she seems to act like a 2 year old at time with not knowing how to appropriately entertain herselft and also when she gets mad or upset. I agree she doesn't act like all of the other kids her age I have been around and now that she is in an early pre-school program and daycare I get looked at funny when I say she is still in diapers like it is my fault, when I have tried everything with her. Even her doctor has told me not to push it just let her do what she wants at this point. I just feel lost with not having specific answers or knowing what I can do to help her. I feel like we are both judged and I'm sure that doesn't help her any.