My daughter will be three in March and she is my first. I had never been around a DS child for an extended period of time before she was born, and I'm still not entirely used to it. I go to school full time and work part time, plus try to spend time with her. She's in a special ed preschool at a local elementary school, which is helping a lot, but my S/O and I are having a hard time agreeing on what she should be held responsible for. I'm not sure of her mental age, but it seems like she should be doing more than she is by now - like putting her toys away and helping me sort laundry. She's getting better, but she's somewhat "disobedient" when we ask her to do something. At this age, what should I expect from her? Should she be helping clean her room by now? Or is that asking for too much? Thanks for the advice!