My name is Felicia and I have a 7 yr old daughhter who has been diagnosed Aspergers AD/HD both types ODD and adaptation behaviors. Im needing help on how to get my daughter to go to bed without me and how to get her meltdowns to a minimum. They have her on meds to keep the meltdowns at bay during the day but when she comes home from school they are really bad. The bad thing about it is I am a single mother who works all the time to make ends meet. I get to see my daughter at night when i pick her up from sitters and put her to bed. On the nights that i am off is when i struggle the most to get her to bed. She wants to sleep with me and when she was a baby i did not let her sleep with me very often i would wake up to her crawling in bed with me. I would like to break this habit as well. Ive tried the bribery ive tried the reward system ive tried everything i can possibly think of that would not only help her but also teach her. Please help i am at my wits end with this issue. Any kind of advice will be greatly appreciated.