Dh and I can never seem to get on the same page and its maddening!! Tonight he tells me I'm too hard on the kids, too controlling and I don't play with them enough. Sure, he can play with them because he's only with them a few hours before he goes to work. He doesn't have the schedules, responsibilities, and chores to juggle. And sure, I'd love to lighten up a bit. Bit when your kid can't even wash their hands after peeing without you reminding them, how am I supposed to back off and expect them to be successful. They dint pick up anything without being asked. They can't follow a simple routine without constant reminders, and without a structured schedule, they get thrown all out of whack!!
do y'all have these issues or do things just flow for you? I'm so tired of the same fights all the time!!
on Oct. 31, 2013 at 1:06 AM