my sd is 9 and my only girl i been helping care for her since she was 4 !
anyway she is so irresponsible with everything she forget everything losses everything and when you try to question her she just refuses to answer you and look sad and crays thinking that will get her out of it
we time her out for not answering but still she dose it
as for what i mean she loses everything i spend loads of money each year on hair stuff and when i need any hair stuff and ask here to get me it she will bring something else and say she wants to wear it until one day she says there nothing at that point it will turn out she lost ever bit of hair stuff INCLODING MINES !
she leaves her ds games lying about and loses them all
she loses school letters and money and forget to tell me she need stuff for school
and i punish her , tell her off , ect ect i even try positive stuff NOTHING WORKS ! its like she dose not care if her stuff gets broken or lost . we have 2 toddler so if it left lying the get it and break it. i think she just expects me to get her more ! and with hair stuff its a pain in the ass as i don't want her to go to school a mess
today i was drinking my coffee and turned around to see sd with her GOLD ! earring box her gran got her and they were not cheep she been playing with them and has LOST ONE EARING FROM EACH SET !!!! so i asked her where they were and she refused to answer me and starts the sad look rubbish
so she in time out just now ! i am just feb up with her she dose not look after anything. she had no hair stuff or jewelry cause SHE HAS LOST IT ALL and whats worse is she loses mines to. yet when ever i am not looking she will take it to play with . she never tell me when she losses anything and she never looks for it .
eg her birthday her big sister in care got her a ring and it was a bit to big so i told her i get a ring thing to fix it and ut it behind my computer . and hour later i went to show dh how much the ring was to big and the box was empty . i asked sd and she said " oh i lost it " so i asked if she looked at it and she looked at me as if i was mad and said "no" so i told her to get looking for it now and as normal she did it at one mile an hour picking up on or two things then saying "its lost i cant fine it " WELL LOOK BLODDY RIGHT !!! after a long protest she did fine it in the hall in an easy place to find . i don't get it she loved the ring she wanted the right but she treats it like crap !