I'm Bre, 21, married with 2 beautiful daughters, I am currently pregnant with twins, i got pregnant on mirena, and My DH and I decided that it would be best for a couple who could not have children be able to adopt our twins since we are not financially able to take on 2 more children. its really hard on us to have to make this decision. We talked today with a adoption agent, and she asked a lot of question like how close we want the adoption parents to be involved. I totally want the parents involved, going to ultrasounds, picking out the twins' names, i want the mom to be in the room with me when i give birth, my DH and I wish we didn't have to, but I know it's whats best for them. DH and I started signing paperwork and hopefully soon we can choose the adoptive parents. Any advice you moms can give me to make the adoptive parents feel comfortable? any advice at all?