I posted in here earlier, how my DH and I, have chose adoption for our identical twin boys. Well we finally picked out a lovely couple, Mark and Genia, I talked on the phone once with them, and I already love them. I finally get to meet them next Wednesday at my doctor appointment. I have framed the ultrasounds as a present to them, and I'm so excited for them to be able to see them in the ultrasound. They have been TTC since 1998, and was chose for adoption 2 years ago but the bm changed her mind 3 weeks after they had their son Grant home.
I have asked Genia to be in the room with me, if i can have the boys vaginally, which I am in favor for. I asked them to pick out the names, and my DH wants Mark to cut the cords for the boys. I always tell them, that this 100% and we won't be changing our minds. I know it's going to be hard to say goodbye to them, but I know Mark and Genia will make such wonderful loving parents. My only concern, is since we did chose open adoption, they will send updates and pictures the first year, but then forget about us, I'm so scared of that happening. Only thing I can do is really talk to them about it, Sorry for the long rant just nervous/excited and can't sleep.
Thanks for reading!!