Hi! I am hoping for some feedback from adoptive parents who have visits from birth parents. Our birth mom called and asked if we would let her parents visit while our daughter is still little.(she is 8 months). Then also asked if her and the birth father could also visit. I have always thought it would be good so she could see how happy our daughter is and well cared for, but I am having some anxiety about will she want visits every year? We have always discussed that our daughter will know she is adopted and it will always be discussed and explained to her. I have just been having concerns about how I will feel after and if we should meet at our home or elsewhere. We share phone calls and photos and they send gifts, so it is a somewhat open adoption. Our birth mom said she wants a relationship with my husband and I and want to be friends. I feel close to her and spend sometimes several hours on the phone laughing nd sharing recipes and such, but guess I am a little confused about my feelings suddenly.
Thanks! for reading my long questions