I'm new to this group, but I'm assuming most of you have adopted a child in some way. I couldn't find a group for moms who were adopted. I'll start with asking: If your child didn't know his/her biological parents at all. ex. closed adoption. Would it hurt your feelings if they wanted to search for them when they were older in their 20s? I know all adoptees have different stories and situations. Some people accept it better than others. I have a brother who was adopted and we both have very different views and experiences with it even though we grew up with the same parents.