Hi everyone I'm Emily I have not adopted yet but am looking to start the process of adopting my stepson in the spring. I hope this is the right group for me as I have no idea where to start. My husband has had custodey of his special need son his entire life. SS is 8 and his mother never has contact. I've been mommy to him for 6 years now I also have 2 boys one from a previous relationship and one with my dh. I would love for dh to adopt my son but his bio dad would start a shit fit.