I am a proud mom of 2 beautiful children. Our son is 4 years old and our daughter is 8 months. Bethany facilitated our son's adoption. From application to bringing him home was less than a year. We have an open adoption and visit his birthfamily yearly. Our daughter came into our family through the Safe Haven program through DCS. The process has been slow but we are weeks from finalization. Both of my children are healthy, happy, and developing on target. I am 4o years old and hoped to be done with family planning at this time in my life. My husband and I would like another child. However, our budget does not allow us to go through an agency this time around and we were incredibly blessed that our daughter was born free of drugs and health problems. We are waiting for another Safe Haven situation but we have been told those are extremely rare situations. We were hoping to find a birthmom to work with our lawyer. Our caseworker wants us to go the traditional foster care route but it really scares me. I'm afraid of drug exposure and falling in love with a baby and then having to return him/her to an awful situation. I'm just so anxious because we are getting older and we want another baby soon .