My husband and I are considering adoption and are really at the first stages of the process. We have 2 children and have been foster parents to 10 children. We also have been surrogates twice (pregnant right now with 2nd). We found out with this pregnancy that due to the first surrogacy causing a good deal of scar tissue in my uterus that this pregnancy will be our last safe one and if we have any more bio or surrogate children we will be risking both lives. We are considering both foster adoption and private but would prefer private because it would allow us a better relationship with the mother.
I would love to know how you ladies have gone through things and what you found to work or not. Also I am just excited to be part of this group!
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