So here is our story! My husband and I have friends of the family (this couple) who has been trying for a year or so to have a child and now has been going through adoption for almost a year with no success at the moment! Lately all I have been thinking about is how deserving this couple is! This couple just so happens to be the people we have asked to be our daughters god parents! So I have discussed with my husband and we have just told the ocuple that we are willing to have a child and allow them to adopt him or her!
I made an appointment today for FFeb 19th at 9am to have my implanon removed so if they decided it would be easier to try and concieve, if they decided no then I will be on another birthcontrol, probably pills. I have talked with my husband and we both are more then willing to go through this exsperience for this couple! They are amazing and deserve to be parents! They will be amazing parents!
When I talked to the couple yesterday they did not say no but they also did not say yes about the idea! All they said was that they wouldn't be able to ask us to do that! We are close to them but not super close. We do consider them family but their friends! We only see the couple like once a year which is on christmas! I know it will be really hard but it is something I have my heart on doing! I have my husband for complete support and a daughter of my own! I eventually want to have another child but not anytime soon! We want to have one a few more years down the road.
I am here looking for thoughts on this! Another thing to this story is my mother in-law, she is ranting on how she is the grandma and will not abandan that grandchild of hers and will want to be in his/her life!
I will take all thoughts in mind but not completely too heart if they are not positive but feel free to add your thoughts because I am stumbled!