My DH and I were pondering on whether or not we want to adopt another child. Right now we have 4 adopted children. Two from the country of Ukraine, a DD and a DS. Two from the US a DD and a DS. Their ages range from 13 - 21. All of our children were adopted older, the youngest was 9 from Ukraine. I don't think I can go through another transition. Am I wrong? I feel like I am cheating a child out of a good home, but there is so much drama here and they all have different issues, that I don't know if I have the patience to start all over. Am I being selfish?