I can't have.....happy moments anymore....

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure what's wrong with me....I was one of those women who had multiple orgasms in multiple ways....I could even orgasm from things that didn't even touch down below.....

But I haven't been able to get anything - ANYTHING - at all for almost a year now....I've gone from loving sex to hating it because I just.can't. go.

It will build and then....I either never make over the edge, or ....well, I'm not sure if I have or not it's that quick and I am totally....unfulfilled....

I am 40, but I don't see where that should make a big difference....I mean, everything still seems to work....

So I am asking for advice, for knowing whether I am alone or this has happened to anyone else....and mostly....will I ever be able to have that "earth moving" experience again?

[Anonymous]

After my hysterectomy I went through the same thing. Hormones did help a little, but they are adjusting the dosage, (Bio Identical Hormones), now, so with a lot of luck, time, patience, and prayers I sure hope that it changes. I have had my hysterectomy  since 2008, I had orgasms since but had to work very, very hard and long for them, but when I completely went off of the hormones, (because I thought they weren't doing anything, stupid me), I stopped having any orgasm no matter what we did.  So back on the hormones now and hoping that I can get there again, I loved sex before the surgery, but I couldn't care less after. Please everyone, think about all of the changes, not just the obvious ones when surgery is brought up by the Doctor. At first after the surgery not many changs but as the years go by, there are more and more side effects.....Bio Identical are great though, as long as you have a good Doc and a better Pharmacist!

[MrsRobinson06]

I would think with age comes change in our bodies. I would talk to a doctor.