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I "drugged" my DH.. does that make me a bad wife?

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OK so DH has had trouble with his stamina since we got married 4 yrs ago. We dated for 2 years before then and the sex was beyond amazing. A few weeks before we got married he started dying down a bit but I just thought it was bc of all the stress from school and getting married. Well 2 yrs went by and it just got worse, he would last 5 minutes at most so we would have sex 3 or 4 times a day. Well after DD was born we went a while without it, like 3 months bc of healing and what not. So we finally do it and it was HORRIBLE!! He could not keep it up, the foreplay was bad, even the kissing was bad. Since then we might have sex every 4 to 6 weeks. So yeah yesterday I was so mad bc I didn't get it on my anniversary or my birthday so I drugged him and yesterday was the best it has been in years! So I kinda felt bad but, I told him after and he said the awesome happy fun time was worth it. lol So does this make me a bad wife? Have any of you done or thought about doing this to DH/SO?

We have talked about it for 2 yrs now and he will not go get checked out. It is an herbal pill called Extenze. It worked great and I finally got to enjoy my husband for more than 15 minutes. I have no shame, besides i have told him a couple different times that if he didn't do something about it then I would. Just sayin 

by on Aug. 31, 2012 at 3:33 PM
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sj3starz
by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 3:51 PM
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Quoting DOllfACE-:

Drugged him with WHAT?! AND Yeah you're a psycho.. I'm training in the police academy and i can think of plenty of charges I would ring you up on. You could've friggin killed your DH for dick.

Did you ever think of a fatal allergic reaction to whatever you gave him? You'd be charged with either man slaughter or homicide depending on your state and their laws. How about possession of illegal substance or if it was Viagra you could be charged with possession of a RX not prescribed to you. You could be changed of child endangerment as well if your children were home and he had a psychotic break down from a drug effect...Also rape...in my state you'd be charged with spousal rape hands down...I can keep going but I think I made my point....

I think you're in the nicest way to put it selfish and moronic to be completely honest. And no i'm not being dramatic I'm being realistic

First... what she gave him was an OTC med, and I would HOPE that she would know and understand any possible reactions to it. Do you know of your S/O allergies? I hope so!

It's an herbal supplement which is suppose to "enlarge" which obviously doesn't, but if it works to keep it going longer then w/e.

I think it's her perogative, especially if she warned him previously. If she ended up doing it, it probably means that he didn't object too harshly. I have threatened things to my husband and if he is indifferent I am more likely to do it. 

I don't think there is a problem with it, especially if it was an OTC herbal supplement and he was made aware that it could happen. He ended up liking it too, so it really is no cause for concern. 


I don't think being judgmental is what they should be teaching you in the police academy. YOU are not the law, you are there to enforce it sure, but you are not a judge or jury. Get off your high horse.

Lena-Loo
by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 4:21 PM

We have jokingly talked about for years. He thought it was funny then and still thinks it is funny now. 

Quoting liz.1986:

I would never do that without discussing it with my DH first.


Lena-Loo
by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 4:24 PM

I told him after he drank the mtn dew and it was well worth it. He had a good laugh and I got as one lady said a "good dicking".. lol 

Quoting xanthian41691:

lol I love how people are calling you a bad wife, makes me laugh. Cuz I'm sure they've never done anything a tad wrong.

I think you did what you had to do and if it worked then hey, more power to ya. Tell your hubby though, tell him why it was great and let him know that he can use Extenze without you judging him, that you'd rather enjoy it than care about why he's staying hard. It might bring you closer together.

And if not and you keep drugging him I hope the sex is well worth it :P

Lena-Loo
by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 4:29 PM
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Well put.. 

Quoting sj3starz:


Quoting DOllfACE-:

Drugged him with WHAT?! AND Yeah you're a psycho.. I'm training in the police academy and i can think of plenty of charges I would ring you up on. You could've friggin killed your DH for dick.

Did you ever think of a fatal allergic reaction to whatever you gave him? You'd be charged with either man slaughter or homicide depending on your state and their laws. How about possession of illegal substance or if it was Viagra you could be charged with possession of a RX not prescribed to you. You could be changed of child endangerment as well if your children were home and he had a psychotic break down from a drug effect...Also rape...in my state you'd be charged with spousal rape hands down...I can keep going but I think I made my point....

I think you're in the nicest way to put it selfish and moronic to be completely honest. And no i'm not being dramatic I'm being realistic

First... what she gave him was an OTC med, and I would HOPE that she would know and understand any possible reactions to it. Do you know of your S/O allergies? I hope so!

It's an herbal supplement which is suppose to "enlarge" which obviously doesn't, but if it works to keep it going longer then w/e.

I think it's her perogative, especially if she warned him previously. If she ended up doing it, it probably means that he didn't object too harshly. I have threatened things to my husband and if he is indifferent I am more likely to do it. 

I don't think there is a problem with it, especially if it was an OTC herbal supplement and he was made aware that it could happen. He ended up liking it too, so it really is no cause for concern. 


I don't think being judgmental is what they should be teaching you in the police academy. YOU are not the law, you are there to enforce it sure, but you are not a judge or jury. Get off your high horse.


AmyJeremyx11
by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 4:51 PM
Idk if it makes you a bad wife, but I might have to try it lol
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mommymegan06
by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 6:28 PM
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 hahhahahhaha!! its just a stamina pill. i say you go girl. u get yours.. haha im sorry but this is funny as he!l.

i wudda done the same thing if it came down to it.

its not like you sliped a line of coke in his coffee.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Sep. 1, 2012 at 6:35 PM
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Ummm I'm convinced the dude just can't get hard looking at you because you're a nasty dishonest bitch.
And if he can get it hard, he's MAKING it last 5 mins because he can't stomach your nasty ass.


So continue drugging him, cuz that's all you'll ever get.
jkampbyll
by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 10:27 PM

is is wrong of me to think it would be kinda of hot for my husband to do this.nah just being a smartass.

Quoting ria7:

I think it was wrong. Would you be ok with him slipping you a drug for his pleasure? 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Sep. 1, 2012 at 10:30 PM

LOL omg what you just said reminded me of what my husband said about his ex.she was not very good with hygiene......in the end....

Quoting Anonymous:

Ummm I'm convinced the dude just can't get hard looking at you because you're a nasty dishonest bitch.
And if he can get it hard, he's MAKING it last 5 mins because he can't stomach your nasty ass.


So continue drugging him, cuz that's all you'll ever get.


jkampbyll
by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 10:34 PM

it might be the mt dew thats killing his stamina mt dew has alot of sodium and nothing kills a boner like too much salt in a mans diet.

Quoting Lena-Loo:

I told him after he drank the mtn dew and it was well worth it. He had a good laugh and I got as one lady said a "good dicking".. lol 

Quoting xanthian41691:

lol I love how people are calling you a bad wife, makes me laugh. Cuz I'm sure they've never done anything a tad wrong.

I think you did what you had to do and if it worked then hey, more power to ya. Tell your hubby though, tell him why it was great and let him know that he can use Extenze without you judging him, that you'd rather enjoy it than care about why he's staying hard. It might bring you closer together.

And if not and you keep drugging him I hope the sex is well worth it :P


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