OK so DH has had trouble with his stamina since we got married 4 yrs ago. We dated for 2 years before then and the sex was beyond amazing. A few weeks before we got married he started dying down a bit but I just thought it was bc of all the stress from school and getting married. Well 2 yrs went by and it just got worse, he would last 5 minutes at most so we would have sex 3 or 4 times a day. Well after DD was born we went a while without it, like 3 months bc of healing and what not. So we finally do it and it was HORRIBLE!! He could not keep it up, the foreplay was bad, even the kissing was bad. Since then we might have sex every 4 to 6 weeks. So yeah yesterday I was so mad bc I didn't get it on my anniversary or my birthday so I drugged him and yesterday was the best it has been in years! So I kinda felt bad but, I told him after and he said the awesome happy fun time was worth it. lol So does this make me a bad wife? Have any of you done or thought about doing this to DH/SO?
We have talked about it for 2 yrs now and he will not go get checked out. It is an herbal pill called Extenze. It worked great and I finally got to enjoy my husband for more than 15 minutes. I have no shame, besides i have told him a couple different times that if he didn't do something about it then I would. Just sayin