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I "drugged" my DH.. does that make me a bad wife?

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OK so DH has had trouble with his stamina since we got married 4 yrs ago. We dated for 2 years before then and the sex was beyond amazing. A few weeks before we got married he started dying down a bit but I just thought it was bc of all the stress from school and getting married. Well 2 yrs went by and it just got worse, he would last 5 minutes at most so we would have sex 3 or 4 times a day. Well after DD was born we went a while without it, like 3 months bc of healing and what not. So we finally do it and it was HORRIBLE!! He could not keep it up, the foreplay was bad, even the kissing was bad. Since then we might have sex every 4 to 6 weeks. So yeah yesterday I was so mad bc I didn't get it on my anniversary or my birthday so I drugged him and yesterday was the best it has been in years! So I kinda felt bad but, I told him after and he said the awesome happy fun time was worth it. lol So does this make me a bad wife? Have any of you done or thought about doing this to DH/SO?

We have talked about it for 2 yrs now and he will not go get checked out. It is an herbal pill called Extenze. It worked great and I finally got to enjoy my husband for more than 15 minutes. I have no shame, besides i have told him a couple different times that if he didn't do something about it then I would. Just sayin 

by on Aug. 31, 2012 at 3:33 PM
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mlb456
by Bronze Member on Sep. 1, 2012 at 10:51 PM

haha they feel like since their females they have to prove something.. ive delt with a couple female cops ..they never liked me lol.... but to this post thats a good idea for later in life lol

Quoting Anonymous:

Wow I can see your going to be one of those cops that's a total BITCH! Great just wht we need another FUCKEN bitchy pig!


Quoting DOllfACE-:

Drugged him with WHAT?! AND Yeah you're a psycho.. I'm training in the police academy and i can think of plenty of charges I would ring you up on. You could've friggin killed your DH for dick.


Did you ever think of a fatal allergic reaction to whatever you gave him? You'd be charged with either man slaughter or homicide depending on your state and their laws. How about possession of illegal substance or if it was Viagra you could be charged with possession of a RX not prescribed to you. You could be changed of child endangerment as well if your children were home and he had a psychotic break down from a drug effect...Also rape...in my state you'd be charged with spousal rape hands down...I can keep going but I think I made my point....


I think you're in the nicest way to put it selfish and moronic to be completely honest. And no i'm not being dramatic I'm being realistic



AnHpuresugar
by Bronze Member on Sep. 1, 2012 at 11:04 PM
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It is against the LAW for anyone to give medication, either prescribed or OTC, to another person without their consent.  There is a reason for this.  This happened at the ER I worked at 2 years ago.  The woman gave her boyfriend an herbal supplement to make him "horny".  He went into respiratory arrest.  The attending physician called the cops and she was arrested.  She kept saying, "But I've done it before and nothing happened." .  So freaking stupid.  He survived but was in the ICU for 3 days before coming to the cardiac step down unit.

You are an idiot.  Your husband, for doing the same, is an idiot.  Everyone saying to chill out is just as fucking stupid.  You broke the law and put your husband in physical danger.  

You need serious therapy. Maybe inpatient based on the rest of your posts.

I think the cop in training sounds great.  We need officers like you on the street.  Way to go.

SASSIE224
by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 11:53 PM
I totally agree! Now, I have a question. In the state of Alabama while I was married my former husband decided that after I said NO to him that he was going to do what he wanted to do anyways! I woke to my husband having SEX with me! I was so irrate! I started screaming & yelling and his response was, Oh well I wanted it and I get What I want, and was laughing while he said this! Now, we're divorced three years. I never knew that I could bring charges against him till I read youre post! So what are MY rights and what can I do about this now? Please tell me I can do something about this somehow now.....
marihla
by on Sep. 2, 2012 at 12:32 AM
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 I don't know if I think that was wrong. You both enjoyed it and you told him about it after. It's not like you drugged him with sleeping pills so you could fuck his face and finally get your foreplay.

xanthian41691
by on Sep. 2, 2012 at 12:37 AM
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Again, more power to you :) Some people are just too judgmental right off the bat and it's sad. I'm glad you and hubby are doing well :)

Quoting Lena-Loo:

I told him after he drank the mtn dew and it was well worth it. He had a good laugh and I got as one lady said a "good dicking".. lol 

Quoting xanthian41691:

lol I love how people are calling you a bad wife, makes me laugh. Cuz I'm sure they've never done anything a tad wrong.

I think you did what you had to do and if it worked then hey, more power to ya. Tell your hubby though, tell him why it was great and let him know that he can use Extenze without you judging him, that you'd rather enjoy it than care about why he's staying hard. It might bring you closer together.

And if not and you keep drugging him I hope the sex is well worth it :P


Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on Sep. 2, 2012 at 12:48 AM

Thanks for the idea, I'm totally doing this lol

Anonymous
by Anonymous 13 on Sep. 2, 2012 at 2:23 AM

I think people are getting all crazed over this because of the way you worded your post title.  It's not like you gave him rat poison or something.  It might have been better if you had given it to him with him knowing it. 

It made me think of that episodes on Keeping Up With The Kardashians when Kris was giving Bruce Viagra in his coffee every day and the SON (Rob) took the coffee meant for Bruce and drank it.  Anybody else remember that?  You know she felt like crap that her son ended up in the docs office.  Live and learn!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 13 on Sep. 2, 2012 at 2:28 AM

Find out what the statue of limitations is where you live.  Then be prepared for a "he said, she said" case. The DA would most likely have to decide if there is enough evidence to bring charges.  

Quoting SASSIE224:

I totally agree! Now, I have a question. In the state of Alabama while I was married my former husband decided that after I said NO to him that he was going to do what he wanted to do anyways! I woke to my husband having SEX with me! I was so irrate! I started screaming & yelling and his response was, Oh well I wanted it and I get What I want, and was laughing while he said this! Now, we're divorced three years. I never knew that I could bring charges against him till I read youre post! So what are MY rights and what can I do about this now? Please tell me I can do something about this somehow now.....


JennPearce
by on Sep. 2, 2012 at 2:28 AM
I think that is the wrong way to go about the situation. Lucky for you dh isn't mad, but I can think of a lot of people who would be upset if someone did that to them. Glad it worked in your favor, but next time try having a heart to heart with your dh.
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by Anonymous 14 on Sep. 2, 2012 at 5:15 AM

hmmmm

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