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Lube

Posted by on Sep. 19, 2012 at 3:05 PM
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Ever since I had my son 10 months ago my vagina hasn't been the same. When me and my DF have sex I dry up real quick when we change positions and then it hurts for me and doesn't feel good. I asked my DF about getting lube and he says that he breaks out from it. We have NEVER used lube before so I wouldn't know if this is true or not. Are there lubes out there that is natural enough that we could use that he won't break out from? 

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funwithfive
by on Sep. 19, 2012 at 7:29 PM
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We use organic coconut oil
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cajun_lady_swla
by Member on Sep. 19, 2012 at 7:33 PM
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My favorite lube is astroglide.... I had the same dryness problem after my first (lasted every bit of a year), and all of the KY kinds made my "junk" burn and sting. Astroglide was the only one I found that didn't irritate me. :)
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MamaJAG
by on Sep. 19, 2012 at 7:36 PM

Are you nursing? About the lube, I've heard virgin coconut oil works.  Not sure about anything commercial.  I am not nursing and use hormone free birth control so no more dryness for me, but we always used the KY liquid (not the jelly).

mishlerdr24
by Member on Sep. 19, 2012 at 9:27 PM
No i'm not nursing. My milk dried up at 2 months. But i am taking birth control...never thought that that would have an effect. And i'll look for the coconut oil tomorrow. Thank you!

Quoting MamaJAG:

Are you nursing? About the lube, I've heard virgin coconut oil works.  Not sure about anything commercial.  I am not nursing and use hormone free birth control so no more dryness for me, but we always used the KY liquid (not the jelly).

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becauseIsaid
by Member on Sep. 19, 2012 at 9:37 PM
Coconut oil. Maybe olive oil too. Google 'natural lubes' im sure something will come up.
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MrsRobinson06
by ♥Amy♥ on Sep. 20, 2012 at 3:43 PM
No clue but i would think something organic would be ok.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Sep. 20, 2012 at 4:52 PM
i use wet original (it comes in a black container) its the only one that doesnt make mw itch/burn
PartyGalAnne
by Gold Member on Sep. 20, 2012 at 7:32 PM

You just need a plain old water based lubricant, and more foreplay.

Try Slick N Silly. It's a water based liquid that just adds moisture. NO tingling, no flavor, etc. It also doesn't dry out and get tacky like the rest.


monkeydavis05
by Member on Sep. 20, 2012 at 11:24 PM
What hormone free birth control do you use? I've been looking for one, only found the IUD...
PeachySweet2007
by Member on Sep. 20, 2012 at 11:28 PM
What coconut oil do you use? Does it smell like coconut? Is it a solid that you have to make liquid, or is it constantly liquid?


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We use organic coconut oil

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