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Anonymous
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My husband wants me to be with a girl,so he can watch.  I am not really comfortable with the idea right now, as I am plus size and am self concious. I really dont want anyone seeing me naked, and what not.  I can watch gg porn and be okay.  I can even think of it when we are playing around and he wants me to , to see if it turns me on.  I told him that I am thinking of us going to a strip club together, and if I can handle seeing a naked girl for real - in a sexual way - then I would consider going from there.  My question I guess is . . . should a plus size(20) go to a strip club?  What should a plus size person where to a place like that? Try to look sexy, or just where normal clothes?  Any advice would help.  thanks.

Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 30, 2012 at 10:33 PM
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jesusyangela
by Member on Sep. 30, 2012 at 11:58 PM

be comfortable i go and im about your size (18) not too different and fyi you will probably have bigger tits than any of the women dancing so if you're comfortable with it show them off with a v-cut top or something makes your boobies look amazing and that will give you a confidence boost with all the tiny girls taking their clothes off let your hubby help pick your outfit he will most likely be watching you for cues anyway to see your response...relax and if you have the extra cash get a lap dance from you favorite girl that will give you some of the physical closeness with a female and you can see if you are comfortable with that if not chalk it up to a learning experience and tell hubby its not gonna happen if you are comfy with it now you get to explore this whole new side of your sexuality... ps strippers will pay a lot of attention to you as well because they would rather have you attention than some creepy drunk guys be prepared for that

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 1, 2012 at 12:09 AM
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Try wearing a black corset as a top with a blazer or a nice vest over it with some black jeans or black spandex. Wear some red (or any other color u prefer)shoes
with a matching clutch/purse . Make sure you feel sexy because aslong as u feel sexy u will feel even more comfortable with your self and being there. I'm not a skinny girl I got my stomach/love handels and when I suck it all up under my corset I feel good! Lol. I suggested black top and bottom because black always makes us look a bit slim lol ;)
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 1, 2012 at 12:19 AM

I think the strip club is a great idea.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Oct. 1, 2012 at 12:22 AM
I am bigger than you and have been a few times. Just wear whatever u feel comfortable and sexy in. Strippers seem to like when women come in so you will probably get a lot of attention :)
starreyedcutie
by on Oct. 1, 2012 at 12:25 AM
I can't give any advice :(
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Kazmira222
by Bronze Member on Oct. 1, 2012 at 12:30 AM
I would go as casual and comfortable as you'd like. But look nice as well.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 1, 2012 at 1:11 AM

thank you for all the replies.  I feel better about it.  Maybe we will go, and see what it is like. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Oct. 1, 2012 at 1:41 AM

I am hoping to go with my DH after this baby is born and a few months old. I think it would be a fun experience.

liquidvelvet
by on Oct. 1, 2012 at 7:37 AM
My question is, do YOU want to be with a girl? You said your husband wants you to try. I think that unless it's something that you want, you are not going to be comfortable no matter what you wear. Just my opinion.
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MrsRobinson06
by Gold Member on Oct. 1, 2012 at 3:26 PM
Dont do anything you dont want to do or are comfortable with. Especially just to please your husband. That being said i have gone to strip clubs many times and agree that is a good place to start and see how you feel.
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