I really do not like sex. Never has. It's always been more of a burden than an enjoyable experience. My DH's sex drive has not decreased at all in the 16 years we've been together but mine sure has. It went from being a low sex drive to no sex drive and now to a "please, don't even try to touch me" sex drive.
I've tried to "have sex even when you don't want it" routine and that just led to me resenting him and caused a lot of problems.
No insurance so the doctor is out. I have an iud, the one without the hormones because the hormones in bc pills just made me mean and dropped my already non-existant sex drive even farther down the tubes.
Sleep would be great but the 9 month old baby has been keeping me up half the night. And even when I was getting good sleep, I still hated sex.
Counselors, therapists, doctors, etc all cost money we don't have right now.
I'm so tired of disappointing him but I really hate sex.