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HELP.......I WANT HIM SOOOO BAD!!!!

Anonymous
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HElp its driving me crazy... i want him so bad I cant do anything but think about him in so meny ways!! ( its lust not love) I just want him to take me anyway anywhere.....but the BIG problem is....IM MARRIED TO HIS BEST FRIEND!!!!

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2012 at 5:26 PM
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IrishGem87
by Bronze Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 7:21 PM

Idk...maybe it's just me but....realistically speaking...friendships DO get ruined over these types of things! You may only lust for him right now but...whose to say... you go thru with it and him living there, and if it ends up just as amazing as you expect it to be and it quickly becomes a very often thing? Before you know it... feelings start to come and it's just....idk!!!!...It sounds like a good way, to get way in over your head with! Idk you but...best friendly advice i could give is...leave it alone!

Don't even put you 3 in this possible situation for a bad outcome. Sometimes fantasies are better left at just that! A fantasy and nothing more! Sometimes i think of being gang banged but...I will never go there! It's just fun to think about! This is a saying you may have heard of already but..I'm putting my own little twist on it. Never sacrifice the love you have for the lust you desire! Temptations are put in front of all of us and it's to see how strong we are as a human! Hope you'll do the right thing!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 7, 2012 at 8:04 PM

Thank you. Like I have said before, I only fantasize about him ...I would never go there. I would never hurt my husband that way. I have even told DH about it. thank you for the advice.

Quoting IrishGem87:

Idk...maybe it's just me but....realistically speaking...friendships DO get ruined over these types of things! You may only lust for him right now but...whose to say... you go thru with it and him living there, and if it ends up just as amazing as you expect it to be and it quickly becomes a very often thing? Before you know it... feelings start to come and it's just....idk!!!!...It sounds like a good way, to get way in over your head with! Idk you but...best friendly advice i could give is...leave it alone!

Don't even put you 3 in this possible situation for a bad outcome. Sometimes fantasies are better left at just that! A fantasy and nothing more! Sometimes i think of being gang banged but...I will never go there! It's just fun to think about! This is a saying you may have heard of already but..I'm putting my own little twist on it. Never sacrifice the love you have for the lust you desire! Temptations are put in front of all of us and it's to see how strong we are as a human! Hope you'll do the right thing!


IrishGem87
by Bronze Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 9:31 AM

I must have missed some of your responces. But that's good to know you even went as far as to admit it to your hubby!

Quoting Anonymous:

Thank you. Like I have said before, I only fantasize about him ...I would never go there. I would never hurt my husband that way. I have even told DH about it. thank you for the advice.

Quoting IrishGem87:

Idk...maybe it's just me but....realistically speaking...friendships DO get ruined over these types of things! You may only lust for him right now but...whose to say... you go thru with it and him living there, and if it ends up just as amazing as you expect it to be and it quickly becomes a very often thing? Before you know it... feelings start to come and it's just....idk!!!!...It sounds like a good way, to get way in over your head with! Idk you but...best friendly advice i could give is...leave it alone!

Don't even put you 3 in this possible situation for a bad outcome. Sometimes fantasies are better left at just that! A fantasy and nothing more! Sometimes i think of being gang banged but...I will never go there! It's just fun to think about! This is a saying you may have heard of already but..I'm putting my own little twist on it. Never sacrifice the love you have for the lust you desire! Temptations are put in front of all of us and it's to see how strong we are as a human! Hope you'll do the right thing!



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:17 AM

We are very open with each other. in fact he reads all my posts on here . I have nothing to hide from him.

Quoting IrishGem87:

I must have missed some of your responces. But that's good to know you even went as far as to admit it to your hubby!

Quoting Anonymous:

Thank you. Like I have said before, I only fantasize about him ...I would never go there. I would never hurt my husband that way. I have even told DH about it. thank you for the advice.

Quoting IrishGem87:

Idk...maybe it's just me but....realistically speaking...friendships DO get ruined over these types of things! You may only lust for him right now but...whose to say... you go thru with it and him living there, and if it ends up just as amazing as you expect it to be and it quickly becomes a very often thing? Before you know it... feelings start to come and it's just....idk!!!!...It sounds like a good way, to get way in over your head with! Idk you but...best friendly advice i could give is...leave it alone!

Don't even put you 3 in this possible situation for a bad outcome. Sometimes fantasies are better left at just that! A fantasy and nothing more! Sometimes i think of being gang banged but...I will never go there! It's just fun to think about! This is a saying you may have heard of already but..I'm putting my own little twist on it. Never sacrifice the love you have for the lust you desire! Temptations are put in front of all of us and it's to see how strong we are as a human! Hope you'll do the right thing!

 



ChrissyL90
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:24 AM
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 Get out the vib and fantasize about him.  Just don't touch him!

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