Last night a man got hold of my phone and sent himself my personal pictures that were meant for SO. This man is a close family friend and the same age as my parents. He is also a regular customer at the bar I work at. I've always trusted him up until last night. I left my phone at the table where other family friends were sitting including my sister's MIL while I was dancing. I never in my wildest dreams thought something like this would happen. I haven't told anyone because I'm scared how it will effect relationships. I feel violated, embarrassed, ashamed. I'm so pissed at myself for being so stupid. What do I do?
update: I talked to SO. I told him what happened and why I hadn't told him right away. He said that I had nothing to be ashamed of and that he completely understood why I handled the situation like I did. He just held me, let me cry and said everything would be ok.