Pictures Falling Into The Wrong Hands HELP! UPDATE
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Last night a man got hold of my phone and sent himself my personal pictures that were meant for SO. This man is a close family friend and the same age as my parents. He is also a regular customer at the bar I work at. I've always trusted him up until last night. I left my phone at the table where other family friends were sitting including my sister's MIL while I was dancing. I never in my wildest dreams thought something like this would happen. I haven't told anyone because I'm scared how it will effect relationships. I feel violated, embarrassed, ashamed. I'm so pissed at myself for being so stupid. What do I do?
update: I talked to SO. I told him what happened and why I hadn't told him right away. He said that I had nothing to be ashamed of and that he completely understood why I handled the situation like I did. He just held me, let me cry and said everything would be ok.
this. if he finds out later, it will be that much harder for him to believe you didn't do it.
Quoting prinzesa_edith:
Tell, your husband before he thinks you sent them to him
Yes he sent them to himself. I realized when I had a text come thru and saw his name in my inbox. I thought "that's strange. I haven't text him tonight". The last message was just a draft not actually sent. I approached him and he tried to apologize and said he stopped because he realized it was wrong. Then later as I was crying my eyes out I went to delete and that's when I noticed he has sent several to himself. My face wasn't in any of them all but two were bra and panty pics. He was sending me text all night begging forgiveness.
Quoting lildensmom:
How did you find out he looked at the pics since u were dancing. Did he send them to himself?
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