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In the Bedroom

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About the BJ

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hippiechik3

on Nov. 12, 2012 at 5:58 PM

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I like to please DH but I can never get my self to get him to the big O cuz cum, even the thought, makes me gag. It reminds me of snot.So I suck him rock hard then we fuck like rabbits. He says he doesnt mind that I dont suck him till he finishes but I know he would love it.

Does anyone else feel this way. Is there something I could do to get over it?

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on Nov. 12, 2012 at 5:58 PM

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newmom121812

on Nov. 12, 2012 at 6:02 PM

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just have him warn you right before then just use your hand while he is actually cumming. or tell him he can cum on your chest

by Anonymous on Nov. 12, 2012 at 6:53 PM

I have a huge problem with this.

angieluvsolivia

Angie on Nov. 12, 2012 at 7:03 PM

I am like you OP, just the thought makes me gag. I do the same and my dh says he's satisfied with that.

by Anonymous on Nov. 12, 2012 at 7:19 PM

After 8 1/2 yrs I just did it till he came and it wasn't as bad as I thought. The fact that he was so excited and what it did for us when we moved on made it well worth it! When he tells you he's going to come finish with your hands!

simpleesr23

Member on Nov. 12, 2012 at 7:19 PM

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I have the same problem. I swear I tell myself steady once a week , "Ok, today we're going through with it and you're sucking him until he cums in your mouth." But it never happens!!! I think maybe some wine will loosen me up

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by Anonymous on Nov. 12, 2012 at 7:23 PM

this is what i do and it works for us. i mean it doesn't stop him from asking lol. but the answer is usually no unless we have a marathon so i know he'll basically be out lol

Quoting newmom121812:

just have him warn you right before then just use your hand while he is actually cumming. or tell him he can cum on your chest

craftygrl

Member on Nov. 12, 2012 at 7:35 PM

I'm better off if DH doesn't tell me. He told me today, but I wasn't paying attention & it wasn't as bad as I remembered.

by Anonymous on Nov. 12, 2012 at 7:35 PM

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I've let my husband do that ONCE and I started gagging! It was horrid! And for some reason (sorry if tmi) his jizz was like super thick! I think I used half a bottle of mouthwash after and I brused me teeth until my gums bled! It was bad :/

by Anonymous on Nov. 12, 2012 at 8:13 PM

Done it a few times, but better to just leave him hard and continue in several different positions!