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I sometimes fantasize about getting with women. I used to all the time, but now its just every now and then. I just kindda think experimenting would be fun but i dont know. =/ My husband satisfies like every need and want so i dont know why i think about it all the time. Do any of you fantasize about getting with another woman?
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by on Nov. 16, 2012 at 7:54 PM
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yankeefan828
by on Nov. 17, 2012 at 5:53 PM
Lol I haven't. I stayed single until I was ready to be his. I even stopped talking to him for two months when we met because I knew he wanted to settle down so I waited. I don't mean any disrespect. Everyone is different. But even when I was in relationships with men or women I would tell them I had fantasies about the opposite sex. It's a craving for either the unknown or an itch that needs to be scratched.


Quoting Nicki1995:

Everyone has a fantasies whether they are married or not and whether it is about a man or woman. If you say that you have never had even 1 fantasy about someone while you were married, you are lying.




Quoting yankeefan828:

If you are married you shouldn't be fantasizing about anyone else. You should've experienced things before you got married. Now that is going to continue and you will start to feel guilty. Im bi so my husband made sure I'm done with all of the people I had in my past before we got married. He would not let me check on him with women he still believes its cheating which it is but a lot of men allow it for some reason.


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angieo39
by on Nov. 17, 2012 at 7:09 PM
I am very married and thats my number one fantasy but if I ever acted on it.....the guilt would eat me up and the fantasy would die!
And ....I can fantasize about a chick and I....


Quoting Nicki1995:

My husband is ok with me doing that too, but idk. I guess im just unsure if i would even want to do it, but then again why am i fantasizing about it if i didnt want to try it? Idk. I guess im just confused lol




Quoting Anonymous:

I fantasize about women fairly often even though my so and I have a more than satisfying sex life. I really enjoy lesbian porn and sometimes wihen he's going down on me, I imagine that's a woman lol We've discussed this and he's more than ok with me experimenting with a woman should the opportunity present itself



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Nicki1995
by on Nov. 17, 2012 at 7:23 PM
I know what you mean! I would feel so guilty if i did anything


Quoting angieo39:

I am very married and thats my number one fantasy but if I ever acted on it.....the guilt would eat me up and the fantasy would die!

And ....I can fantasize about a chick and I....




Quoting Nicki1995:

My husband is ok with me doing that too, but idk. I guess im just unsure if i would even want to do it, but then again why am i fantasizing about it if i didnt want to try it? Idk. I guess im just confused lol






Quoting Anonymous:

I fantasize about women fairly often even though my so and I have a more than satisfying sex life. I really enjoy lesbian porn and sometimes wihen he's going down on me, I imagine that's a woman lol We've discussed this and he's more than ok with me experimenting with a woman should the opportunity present itself




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Stiletto_Mom
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:59 AM
This!


Quoting butcher:

 i do all the time. im straight. i have made out with women and its extremely hot. i coulndt lick a vag but id let a woman lick mine lol.


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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Nov. 18, 2012 at 4:39 AM

me too. and i dont know why. ive always kept it to myself. always felt a lot of guilt and shame even tho theyre only thoughts. i like men. i think its just the thot that its " forbidden " that makes us enjoy it. i dont think i actually want full blown sex w a woman. but for some reason think i would def enjoy the kissing and playing above the waist. ive wanted to "talk dirty" to my husband about it but never do cuz unfortunately, he always tells our friends exactly wut we do n say. IN FULL DETAIL. total lack of respect for me. ive demanded several times that he stop. but he still does it. i feel like i cant trust him. so, i can never truely b me in the bedroom. so many things i want to try but dont dare. ive even gotten to the point where i say "no talking. let it happen silently" for fear he will repeat it. ugghhh!!!!!  

sry. got off track. wut do u fantasize about in the "other women" topic?

Nicki1995
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 9:10 AM
Have you talked to him about it telling him that you dont want him telling people what you both do in the bedroom? My husband used to brag about ours, but i told him that he needed to quit or he wasnt getting any at all. He quit so we spiced things up lol And i just imagine like kissing and playing with boobs i guess lol sometimes it goes further, but not normally


Quoting Anonymous:

me too. and i dont know why. ive always kept it to myself. always felt a lot of guilt and shame even tho theyre only thoughts. i like men. i think its just the thot that its " forbidden " that makes us enjoy it. i dont think i actually want full blown sex w a woman. but for some reason think i would def enjoy the kissing and playing above the waist. ive wanted to "talk dirty" to my husband about it but never do cuz unfortunately, he always tells our friends exactly wut we do n say. IN FULL DETAIL. total lack of respect for me. ive demanded several times that he stop. but he still does it. i feel like i cant trust him. so, i can never truely b me in the bedroom. so many things i want to try but dont dare. ive even gotten to the point where i say "no talking. let it happen silently" for fear he will repeat it. ugghhh!!!!!  

sry. got off track. wut do u fantasize about in the "other women" topic?


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chloemom531
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 9:20 AM
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Yes ive been with women b4..& its a undesciable feelin...a woman knows how to plz another women
namom2008
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 8:24 PM

your bold!!! 

Nicki1995
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 8:35 PM
I dont understand what you mean..?


Quoting namom2008:

your bold!!! 


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2babys2mamas
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 8:43 PM
Yes but then again I'm a lesbian ;-)
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