i hate it

[Ians1Mommy]

I hate giving head but my so is always asking for it...he complains cuz he loves going down on me but I can't return the favor...he gets it on his birthday and big holidays but other than that it's a no...how can I make myself like it and please him more? We don't even have sex anymore so I don't know why I'm asking but I want it back I need to spice things up somehow

[TaneeB]

Try it with the oral candy or something maybe you can enjoy it them but that probably will spice yall sex life back up sometimes you gotta go beyond your comfort zone to please him .. Just try it to see how it works

[mom2twins82]

Flavored lubes, whipped cream,chocolate. I like the KY for her and him. Its yummy and warms when they mix.

[Ians1Mommy]

It's just so scary down there I don't even like to look at it but he refuses to trim which makes it even harder for me to leave my comfort zone....there is nothing about that area on him that turns me on anymore...does that mean there's something wrong with me?

[TaneeB]

No it does mean something is wrong with maybe he should do something down there so you can be more comfortable giving him head like trem a little and look neat .. he can't possible think you are goin to suck a hair penis

[philly_mom]

My husband makes sure to keep nice and trim down there, so I don't get nasty fur stuck in my teeth.  Can I ask what grosses you out about it?  Would it make you want to do it more if he was more vocal about how good it feels or how good you are?  Sometimes some "dirty talk" communication in the bedroom is very helpful when it comes to braving new terrain.

[Anonymous]

If it doesn't turn you on at all... and you guys aren't having sex at all. Maybe the issues are outside the bedroom and you're looking for excuses?

Quoting Ians1Mommy:

It's just so scary down there I don't even like to look at it but he refuses to trim which makes it even harder for me to leave my comfort zone....there is nothing about that area on him that turns me on anymore...does that mean there's something wrong with me?

[Ians1Mommy]

I have a hard time being interested in him cuz he eats like a hog he hasn't showered in over a week and he's just plain dirty and I don't know how to tell him how I feel....what do I do? Lock the refrigerator?

[lifeforchrist]

ew. oral is disgusting and i would never do it. I have vagina so my hubb can use that. He is perfetly content with it too. :)

[PANDA29]

oh no...i tell my hubby " i shave and keep clean for you incase you get hungry all of a sudden so if i get hungry you better be neatly trimmed and clean as well or I'm not going down on you until you are clean" and really I like it fresh out of the shower or even in the shower....have you tried that pleasing eachother in shower. If I know my hubby hasn't showered and he want head..i tell him you better go wash it or I'm not touching it ...lol don't hv to tell mine twice...lol

[lifeforchrist]

what isnt disgusting about it? Sex is a joint pleasure effort not a 'please me' activity. hubby and i have sex to feel close, and feeling good is a bonus. Not to mention it is immorally wrong in my faith, and considered a perversion.

Quoting ladylisa88:

Quoting lifeforchrist:

ew. oral is disgusting and i would never do it. I have vagina so my hubb can use that. He is perfetly content with it too. :)

Whats disgusting about it?