Ok so dh I wanna do anal with dh. He's very interested in it. I was able to once. But to me it hurts. I want to do it for him & it turns me on too. My question is are there any tips or anything to make it less uncomfortable?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:43 PM
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on Nov. 18, 2012 at 3:52 PM
Have a few drinks an some good lube. I find once he has it in if he just goes at it it only hurts for a second then feels awesome. You have to relax an at first its hard to but then you just let go. Let him inside you!
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on Nov. 18, 2012 at 4:02 PM
Also, I would suggest insisting that you insert him at your own leisure. Also, sometimes it helps if you're on top, so you're in complete control.
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Laying on your back with your legs kindda up resting on your chest may help and slow deep breaths and good lube. just make sure you tell him to go easy and try not to tense. Just relax
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on Nov. 18, 2012 at 4:13 PM
I've read that doggie or from behind is better.
I've only let my guy barely put it in a little once. I want to do it more but I'm sort of scared. Especially considering how big he is. He has fingered me anally before and it was the most intense orgasm I've ever had.
I've only let my guy barely put it in a little once. I want to do it more but I'm sort of scared. Especially considering how big he is. He has fingered me anally before and it was the most intense orgasm I've ever had.
by Anonymous
on Nov. 18, 2012 at 4:19 PM
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Any kind of numbing cream is NOT recommended. If it hurts you are doing it wrong! You need lube, be relaxed and he has to go slow!
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Get some desensitizing cream/gel. It works and its inexpensive.
We got some called comfortably numb. It's amazing
by Anonymous
on Nov. 18, 2012 at 4:19 PM
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All sites advise not to use desensitizing gel with anal bc of the sensitive area you need to know and be able to feel if something is going wrong bc pain is the way to tell the body somethings not right. If you relax and don't tense or be scared and there is plenty of lube it doesn't hurt at all. It took me a long time to figure it out and actually do it but once we did its great. gl just remember lube lube lube and relax :)
by Anonymous
on Nov. 18, 2012 at 4:20 PM
Why is it bad?
Quoting Anonymous:
Any kind of numbing cream is NOT recommended. If it hurts you are doing it wrong! You need lube, be relaxed and he has to go slow!
Quoting Anonymous:
Get some desensitizing cream/gel. It works and its inexpensive.
We got some called comfortably numb. It's amazing
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