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LADIES!!! I have an awesome nite planed for DH, I need your opinions!!! :) ((I need all you dominating ladies in here))

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So I usually suck at being creative when it comes to spicing things up in the bedroom. But I have thought about some things that I want to do, to totally take me out of my comfort zone and things I think would be hot. 

I'm really into tieing up and being controlled and stuff in the bedroom, even though I've never done the tied up thing lol. But I love the idea of it, and would love to do it. I' ve told my DH that and he's into trying anything once, but he's never really showed any want to be tied up himself, but he wouldn't mind trying it. I'm usually the submissive one in the bedroom and he's the controlling one. But I want to step outside of my comfort zone and be the controlling one. So this is my plan....

Oh and I have a stipper pole so of course I'm going to use that, and usually when I dance for him he has to touch himself or wants to touch me. But since I want to be in control I want to stop that, so it makes him go crazy lol..ok ok on with the plan. 

I want to tie his hands behind the chair and maybe his ankles to the bottom of the chair legs. And strip on the pole for him, touching him from time to time during it. Then when I'm done have nothing on but my high heels, I want to start playing with myself  in front of him, not to get off just more of to tease him with it and talk dirty while I do it. And this part may gross some of you out, and it kinda does me too, but my dh freakin loves it. When I'm done playing with myself, I'm going to put my fingers in his mouth so that he can taste me. ( Now through all of this I'm going to be talking dirty even though i have no clue what I'm going to say yet lol)  Then I'm going to blindfold him and totally tease him from head to toe (all the while he's still tied to the chair) And when I'm done teasing I was thinking of maybe fucking him while in the chair. It would still make him want me even more because he can touch me or anything while I'm doing it. Then I'll untie him and let him have his way with me.

So that's the gist of my plan..lol. But I would love to have some input. I feel so wierd trying to be the dominant one. But the point of it is, to use him for my pleasure. That kind of stuff has just always been so hot to me, and I think DH would like it too. 

So all you dominating ladies, what do you think? What do I need to do differently, and I'll even take what you guys think I should say, bc I have no clue of what to say while being the dominant one!! And I really hope none of you say this is gross lol. I feel like a wierdo for liking this kind of thing. Thanks ladies!! 

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 19, 2012 at 2:35 AM
Replies (11-20):
dewdrop1
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:47 AM
Good for you! Ur plan sounds great. My only advice is to go for it. Do what u like! Don't over think it just have fun wth it.
armstrong7984
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:28 AM

YA.....wth? i had to do a double take.

Quoting Anonymous:

You're a dude?


Quoting nova84:

As a guy let me say WOW he is a lucky man, this sounds like it will be as much fun for you (getting out of your comfort zone), as it is for him. As others have said, don't over think it, guys are very visual albeit simple creatures, just keep his eyes focused on you and simply tell him what you are going to do to him and what the whole thing is doing to you. The dirtier the talk the better if you ask me.


Lastly, the part about fucking him in the chair sounds incredibly hot I would keep his hands tied and tell him you are just using his meat so to speak and he is there to pleasure you, also before that I would say tease his balls and cock with your hand, foot (if either of you are into that), and mouth before you mount him. Lick the balls and shaft and make him beg you to suck it, and then you decide if he deserves it or not.


I guess those are the things that would drive me crazy. Sounds like you have a great plan, good luck and enjoy.



Nicki1995
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:41 AM
I thought guys werent on this site...?


Quoting armstrong7984:

YA.....wth? i had to do a double take.


Quoting Anonymous:

You're a dude?



Quoting nova84:


As a guy let me say WOW he is a lucky man, this sounds like it will be as much fun for you (getting out of your comfort zone), as it is for him. As others have said, don't over think it, guys are very visual albeit simple creatures, just keep his eyes focused on you and simply tell him what you are going to do to him and what the whole thing is doing to you. The dirtier the talk the better if you ask me.



Lastly, the part about fucking him in the chair sounds incredibly hot I would keep his hands tied and tell him you are just using his meat so to speak and he is there to pleasure you, also before that I would say tease his balls and cock with your hand, foot (if either of you are into that), and mouth before you mount him. Lick the balls and shaft and make him beg you to suck it, and then you decide if he deserves it or not.



I guess those are the things that would drive me crazy. Sounds like you have a great plan, good luck and enjoy.





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armstrong7984
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:42 AM

better stop talking about it thell delete this post, apparently we cant mention the word boys. wow.

Quoting Nicki1995:

I thought guys werent on this site...?


Quoting armstrong7984:

YA.....wth? i had to do a double take.


Quoting Anonymous:

You're a dude?



Quoting nova84:


As a guy let me say WOW he is a lucky man, this sounds like it will be as much fun for you (getting out of your comfort zone), as it is for him. As others have said, don't over think it, guys are very visual albeit simple creatures, just keep his eyes focused on you and simply tell him what you are going to do to him and what the whole thing is doing to you. The dirtier the talk the better if you ask me.



Lastly, the part about fucking him in the chair sounds incredibly hot I would keep his hands tied and tell him you are just using his meat so to speak and he is there to pleasure you, also before that I would say tease his balls and cock with your hand, foot (if either of you are into that), and mouth before you mount him. Lick the balls and shaft and make him beg you to suck it, and then you decide if he deserves it or not.



I guess those are the things that would drive me crazy. Sounds like you have a great plan, good luck and enjoy.



 



Nicki1995
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 11:43 AM
After you blindfold him and rub all over him with your body, make sure you give him a short blowjob though! Just enough to tease ;) Then you can have your way with him. (Just a suggestion) Other than that, sounds like your plan is perfect! Giving me some ideas.. Lol We have fussy cuffs though =P
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mom_of_twingirl
by Bronze Member on Nov. 19, 2012 at 12:48 PM

i wanted to try that with my ex but that never happened since I never got the courage to do it.  I would love to try it at some point. I am not sure on what to say. I hope to hear how it went tho.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:16 PM

thanks ladies, you guys made me feel not so dumb for wanting to do this.lol. It's always a little wierd when stepping out of your comfort zone lol.

EthansMomma2010
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 5:22 PM
Glad I'm not the only one who thought that.

Quoting Anonymous:

That seems like so much work. lol.
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luvmibbies
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:39 PM

if you can't think of anything to say, saying "you like that?" or "you want it baby" something kinda natural but sitll dirty that feels comfurtable is always a good choice:)

MrsRi
by on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:41 PM

I've done similar things with my DH.  I ended up tipping the chair down (want to add here, that I'm actually very VERY well trained in most things BDSM related so don't try a supporting rope harness without some practice first) and rode his face until I came.  I spent a lot of time teasing him and right when he was damn near in tears, I lifted him back up and rode him in the chair.  Pretty much the whole time he couldn't touch me.

;-) 

Good times

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