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Why has our sex changed?

Posted by on Nov. 22, 2012 at 1:02 AM
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Now that im pregnant it seems like our sex life has completely changed. Hes still coming on to me just as much and im not turning him down but it seems like our actual sex has changed soo much. Its not as long and we just kinda get strait to the point. He doesent go down on my anymore or expect me to do him. I offer but he just wants to get in and get out it seems like. Why is this and what can I do to get all that crazyness we used to have back?

Posted by on Nov. 22, 2012 at 1:02 AM
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2babys2mamas
by Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 1:31 AM
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It could be a number of things! During pregnancy the inside of a woman changes greatly. You're more easily aroused and the membranes on the inside swell more due to increased blood flow, making it feel better for him. Also because of the increase in blood flow you become more wet than normal, this can be very pleasing in and of itself, perhaps your man is just interested in the new sensations he is getting to enjoy, and wants to just get at it! ;-) one thing for sure though, you will never know until you communicate with your partner. Until he tells you why it will only be a guessing game!
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 4:49 PM
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The same thing happened with me,  he wouldn't give me oral cuz he thought it would hurt me and I offered it to him but wouldn't swallow.  It just wouldn't be right.  He wouldn't suck on my tits even when I told him to since I couldn't breast feed.  He was hornier though doing missionary or me on top.

RAH8183
by Bronze Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 8:24 PM
This!!!!!


Quoting 2babys2mamas:

It could be a number of things! During pregnancy the inside of a woman changes greatly. You're more easily aroused and the membranes on the inside swell more due to increased blood flow, making it feel better for him. Also because of the increase in blood flow you become more wet than normal, this can be very pleasing in and of itself, perhaps your man is just interested in the new sensations he is getting to enjoy, and wants to just get at it! ;-) one thing for sure though, you will never know until you communicate with your partner. Until he tells you why it will only be a guessing game!

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hippiechik3
by Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 8:51 PM
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Its being pregnant. My dh was like that an we only did side or doggie style. He said when he sees my belly he thinks baby an not 'lets get it on' lol It will change.

AMDesigns94
by New Member on Nov. 24, 2012 at 11:17 PM

I never thought of that, Thank you soo much!

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