explain please

[EthansMomma2010]

Dh told me he can cum in like 2 mins when he is masturbating but it takes at least 10 when we are having sex. Why is this? What am I doing wrong?

[megs424420]

It's probably nothing you are doing wrong. Masturbation is Linda like scratching an itch. You kno exactly where you need to "scratch" to satisfy. But when someone is scratching your back you have to direct them because they may not know exactly where.

[badgermom1257]

From what DH has told me, their hands can make a tighter grip on their cocks than we can with our pussy.

The extra pressure can make them cum quicker.

I am glad he can't cum as quick inside of me!!!  LOL

[EthansMomma2010]

Sorry but your answer sure sounds like its my fault. I actually do know what specifically will get him off but he pushes me off sometimes like he doesn't want me to do that.

Quoting megs424420:

It's probably nothing you are doing wrong. Masturbation is Linda like scratching an itch. You kno exactly where you need to "scratch" to satisfy. But when someone is scratching your back you have to direct them because they may not know exactly where.

[Anonymous]

You really want him to only last 2 minutes with you??
Maybe he is holding back on purpose to satisfy you - or make the moment last longer.

[EthansMomma2010]

If he would do what I tell him I would be done in 2 mins too. I hate long sex.

Quoting Anonymous:

You really want him to only last 2 minutes with you??
Maybe he is holding back on purpose to satisfy you - or make the moment last longer.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you would both be better off masturbating, lol.

Quoting EthansMomma2010:

If he would do what I tell him I would be done in 2 mins too. I hate long sex.

Quoting Anonymous:

You really want him to only last 2 minutes with you??
Maybe he is holding back on purpose to satisfy you - or make the moment last longer.

[EthansMomma2010]

Oh no. We only masturbate when we are physically separated for a time. I love sex. It feels good. But then he drags it out. And its like damn I have things to do.

Quoting Anonymous:

It sounds like you would both be better off masturbating, lol.

Quoting EthansMomma2010:

If he would do what I tell him I would be done in 2 mins too. I hate long sex.

Quoting Anonymous:

You really want him to only last 2 minutes with you??
Maybe he is holding back on purpose to satisfy you - or make the moment last longer.

[Anonymous]

That's sad. Sex is more than just orgasm.

Quoting EthansMomma2010:

If he would do what I tell him I would be done in 2 mins too. I hate long sex.

Quoting Anonymous:

You really want him to only last 2 minutes with you??
Maybe he is holding back on purpose to satisfy you - or make the moment last longer.

[EthansMomma2010]

How so?

Quoting Anonymous:

That's sad. Sex is more than just orgasm.

Quoting EthansMomma2010:

If he would do what I tell him I would be done in 2 mins too. I hate long sex.

Quoting Anonymous:

You really want him to only last 2 minutes with you??
Maybe he is holding back on purpose to satisfy you - or make the moment last longer.

[badgermom1257]

Emotional bonding as well as physical.

Pleasing my DH is one part of our relationship I can control.

Quoting EthansMomma2010:

How so?

Quoting Anonymous:

That's sad. Sex is more than just orgasm.

Quoting EthansMomma2010:

If he would do what I tell him I would be done in 2 mins too. I hate long sex.

Quoting Anonymous:

You really want him to only last 2 minutes with you??
Maybe he is holding back on purpose to satisfy you - or make the moment last longer.