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Anonymous
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I have a bit of a dilemma. I'm 26 and have only been with 1 man my whole life.  I use to tell myself that wasn't unusual since I was married for so long and when we got divorced I thought there would be lots of others like me but there just aren't it seems.  Now I've been with a guy for almost a year, I really love him, he's wonderful to me, but we haven't had sex.  He's 32 and I guess we could say he's "had his fun" and "been around the block", and I'm just too embarressed to say I've been with 1, I'm even more afraid of going to bed with him and him thinking I'm crap in bed, maybe he'll want a woman who's a little more "sexually matured".  Maybe I'm making too much out of this? He's too polite to bring it up but I KNOW he as to be thinking about what's wrong with me!  I've been waiting too long, he probably already knows there's something wrong with me lol.  Somebody please tell me I'm overreacting.

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 6, 2012 at 9:42 PM
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KelissaMaye
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 9:44 PM
I've only been with 1, my dh. And I'm proud of that. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
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whitleypittman
by Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 9:46 PM
I've only slept with one, and it's the man I'm married to.
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Berd
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 9:46 PM

I've only been with one guy and I'm almost 50. You are way over reacting.

slransde
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 9:48 PM
I wouldn't worry too much. He may find it exciting to know he would be your second.

And to amswer the question I've been with a fair number and it doesn't bother me or my dh.
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heartnhidin
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 9:50 PM
Stop thinking about it and just do it. If you feel comfortable watch some porn and get some ideas from it.
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kiddo0820
by Bronze Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 9:52 PM

I'm proud of the fact I've only been with my husband. talk to him about how you feel.

sonya87
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 10:30 PM
I have only been with 1 and that's my husband. I like the idea and I am proud of it.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 6, 2012 at 10:50 PM
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Ashamed of what?! Not being a slut? Be proud of that!
MomRocs1102
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 10:54 PM
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So what you  have only been with one person, i don't even think that should be discussed.  The fun part is he can teach you, learning can be lots of fun.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 6, 2012 at 11:12 PM

u have been with a guy for a yr and havent had sex yet!  wow, thats self control.

I've only been with my so, my 1 and only.

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