Is oral sex a must?

[Anonymous]

My SO basically told me that Oral sex was a must if I wanted sex.

So do you feel it is a MUST? I don't mind it but I'm not doing it every time. I get nothing out of it and don't enjoy it so I feel he should be happy with it maybe once a week.

I said fine we will see how long this last. I won't be doing it for at least a month now. I was so pissed and just wanted a quicky before work.

Men piss me off

Rant over

[Anonymous]

Yes. Both of us enjoy receiving and giving oral pleasure.

[PEEK05]

No, not in our marriage.  It's never done to me and rarely for him.  We have a sex life that we are both satisfied with and that has never been a problem for us.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Your lucky lol. We have a good sex life to for the most part but I haven't gone down on him in a week and he is crying about it lol. We have sex almost everyday. I just don't want to do everyday or even every other day.

Quoting PEEK05:

No, not in our marriage.  It's never done to me and rarely for him.  We have a sex life that we are both satisfied with and that has never been a problem for us.

[AliKatCam]

For me it is. I love getting and recieving oral sex.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Don't get me wrong I love getting it lol but not every time sometimes I just want a quicky so I can go about my day.

Quoting AliKatCam:

For me it is. I love getting and recieving oral sex.

[Anonymous]

Dh hates giving oral always has. But I get it a couple times a year. Dh has never liked getting oral until the other night when I blew his mind but its been almost 6 years of trying. And still won't happen often. We have an amazing sex life that we are both ok with.

If I was told that in order to have sex id have to blow him but not get licked there would be no sex. I have 2 hands and toys.

[Anonymous]

I never give him oral. It is uncomfortable to me. But he does it to me. He loves doing it. I love it from him to. But i get grossed out at the thought of doing it to him. But there shouldn't be conditions for sex. I'd be Pissed to

Quoting Anonymous:

My SO basically told me that Oral sex was a must if I wanted sex.



So do you feel it is a MUST? I don't mind it but I'm not doing it every time. I get nothing out of it and don't enjoy it so I feel he should be happy with it maybe once a week.



I said fine we will see how long this last. I won't be doing it for at least a month now. I was so pissed and just wanted a quicky before work.



Men piss me off



Rant over

[Anonymous]

Maybe for DH but not for me. I've never been able to enjoy oral because I'm so self conscious. I mean it feels and I've gotten close but never cam from it, so I can do without. But DH likes it. I do it a few times a week for him. I don't like doing it. Well...I should say I don't like sucking his dick, but I'll go to town on his balls all nite long lol..and lucky for me he'd much rather have his balls played with than his dick. 

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Balls scare me lmao. I'm always scared ill touch them wrong and hurt him,

Quoting Anonymous:

Maybe for DH but not for me. I've never been able to enjoy oral because I'm so self conscious. I mean it feels and I've gotten close but never cam from it, so I can do without. But DH likes it. I do it a few times a week for him. I don't like doing it. Well...I should say I don't like sucking his dick, but I'll go to town on his balls all nite long lol..and lucky for me he'd much rather have his balls played with than his dick. 

[PartyGalAnne]

If I'M not getting off, NO ONE IS. Oral is ok as part of foreplay (69 is a sure fire way to even the playing field), but certainly not a requirement, and certainly not just for him!