Is oral sex a must?

[Anonymous]

My SO basically told me that Oral sex was a must if I wanted sex.

So do you feel it is a MUST? I don't mind it but I'm not doing it every time. I get nothing out of it and don't enjoy it so I feel he should be happy with it maybe once a week.

I said fine we will see how long this last. I won't be doing it for at least a month now. I was so pissed and just wanted a quicky before work.

Men piss me off

Rant over

[KarenT214]

I think it's odd that anyone would feel pressured into anything during love making. It's supposed to be a loving act to strengthen the bond between two people. That being said, I love oral - giving and receiving. To me it is the ultimate form of intimacy and like kissing. I love making him happy and he loves making me happy. There is nothing I do because I feel I have to or pressured.

[Anonymous]

i LOVE given head it makes me super horny :)

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I'm shocked that so many women live giving head. I just don't see the thrill in it at all. I know it makes him happy but to me he is lucky to get it twice a week. I have always been like this and have went months without giving him head at all. He lived through it lol

[mattiehatter]

It's a bonus, but far from requirement.

[landen1229]

My option is that no you don't have to have oral EVERY time you have sex. My husband and I have oral sex once a week maybe. Nither one of us get into it enough to do it more then that.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I don't feel pressured at all. If I don't want to do something I don't do it and that's that. I just couldn't believe his "fit". It didn't last long at all he ended up caving the next morning when I came home from work lol

Quoting KarenT214:

I think it's odd that anyone would feel pressured into anything during love making. It's supposed to be a loving act to strengthen the bond between two people. That being said, I love oral - giving and receiving. To me it is the ultimate form of intimacy and like kissing. I love making him happy and he loves making me happy. There is nothing I do because I feel I have to or pressured.