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Is oral sex a must?

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My SO basically told me that Oral sex was a must if I wanted sex.

So do you feel it is a MUST? I don't mind it but I'm not doing it every time. I get nothing out of it and don't enjoy it so I feel he should be happy with it maybe once a week.

I said fine we will see how long this last. I won't be doing it for at least a month now. I was so pissed and just wanted a quicky before work.

Men piss me off

Rant over
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 7, 2012 at 1:52 AM
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by Anonymous 6 on Dec. 7, 2012 at 7:14 AM
SO doesn't like to do it for me... And that's fine because I don't like getting it. I do like doing it for him, and I do it just about every time. There are no conditions though. If I didn't feel like doing it he would be fine with that, but I love doing it so he's happy
by Gold Member on Dec. 7, 2012 at 7:15 AM
We both love it so I usually end up down there durring some point in it.
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by Member on Dec. 7, 2012 at 7:20 AM
It might bebfor your SO but it isn't for mine. Sometimes we are too heated up already for that!
by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 7:33 AM
Whaaat? Maybe you should 69 then! I like giving my husband a blowjob, but thats about once a week and i dont need to be eaten everytime. Im good with once a week on that because most of the time i go straight to sex! lol
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by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 7:37 AM
Having any type of parameters on our sex life is a no go. I love him, he loves me, we trust each other...we love doing everything with each other.
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by Anonymous 7 on Dec. 7, 2012 at 8:50 AM

 my hubby licks me til i cum almost every single time. he enjoys doing it and it feels better for me. he says i give amazing head, but i don't enjoy doing it. i do it when he asks, but i rarely volunteer (and never til he comes- i HATE the taste)
i wouldn't go for stipulations, like you only get sex if he gets oral.

by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 9:04 AM
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No specific sex act is a "must". It should all be based on a combination  what each person enjoys, and feels comfortble doing.

by Gold Member on Dec. 7, 2012 at 9:14 AM

In general, in our relationship yes. It isn't necessary each and every time we have sex though, no.

by Anonymous 8 on Dec. 7, 2012 at 9:29 AM
Oral is not a must. If he wants to recieve he better be giving.
by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 10:39 AM

i think if  he wants it  fron you then he should  give you oral  as well but i dont think it sould be a must every tine no i think you can have sex with out it

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